I’ve seen that guys site before – he’s commented around on a lot of blogs. I don’t think too many people would take him seriously since his blog is so poorly written, but I also was pretty disgusted after reading just a couple posts, so clicked away.

You know, someone I had a long conversation with a couple weeks ago about infertility said, “I just can’t understand people who, once they know they can’t have a biological child, refuse to adopt.” I carefully explained to her how emotionally and financially draining, no…devastating, it can be to go through infertility treatments, and that the process of adoption can be even longer and more difficult emotionally and financially. I think she was surprised to hear things from a different perspective, that those things had never occurred to her, and I even think at the end she realized that it’s never okay to judge someone’s decisions on how they chose to build their family. I least I hope…

I don’t think the fertile world thinks that we put much thought into our reproductive choices (if you can call it that), since they never thought about theirs!

I don’t have young children, like you I’m struggling up the IF mountain, but I have hope for you and me.

Ears and brain wide shut, is what that is.

And yeah, made me kinda mad too.

Happy Birthday, btw! I’ll be 40 in September, so I’m right behind ya! As my dear D says, “you either have them, or you don’t”. He’s such a sweet talker…..